My Dad Was There !!!

(Pro 22:6)Train up a child in the way he should go; and when he is old, he will not depart from it (Deu 11:18) Therefore you shall lay up these my words in your hearts and in your souls, and bind them for a sign upon your hand, so that they may be as frontlets between your eyes. (Deu 11:19)And you shall teach them to your sons, speaking of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.

  One of the greatest acheivments of satan especially in these modern times is taking Dads out of the home. The older I’ve become the more I appreciate the fact that my Dad was at least there. Growing up a “PK” (preacher’s kid) was not easy especially when you consider that my Dad was never really satisfied with his postion in ministry all of our lives. His desire was to pastor something he did during his younger days but never did after he married and had us. I truly believe that he took many of his frustrations in life out on us. As the years have passed looking back I realize that our home was dysfunctional to say the least. However that being said I still appreciate the fact that he was there especially as I look at the fact that these days so many dads are MIA.

It was no picnic growing up in our household but at least we were blessed to have both Mom and Dad present. It is so sad to see how guys who call themselves men so easily neglect there responsibility. From the moral aspect you should not be having sex unless you are married. At the same time you should not be depositing your sperm in any woman that you don’t envision being your wife. Because the woman that you had sex with as well as the children who may be a result of those actions deserve better and if you are a real man you’ll man-up.  As we look at our scriptures above you’ll see that in Deuteronomy we see that God is giving instructions to the Dads and it is clear that his intentions are for them to be in the home raising their children. As Dads we are to train our children daily and to be in their lives daily. 

 It is my opinion that the church is as much to blame as society for the abscence of dads in our homes. There are preachers, pastors, bishops, prophets, and apostles. They all know how to teach and preach about planting a seed offering and the lord will bless you. However many neglect to spend time teaching our boys, young men, and old as well how to refrain from depositing their seed which these days often results in unwanted pregnancies. “IF YOU DROP THE SEED DO THE DEED AND MARRY YOUR BABY’S MOMMA”.  To you moms out there you need to stop letting your sons off the hook and start teaching them to be the Dads that their dad wasn’t. Dad’s need to be present 24/7 when at all humanly possible. It is time for us to say enough is enough and stop accepting the broken homes that satan is creating. To you men out there man-up make your baby’s momma your wife no she’s not perfect, yes she’s got issues but so do you and none of that was a problem when you chose to lay down with her and had sex. For those of you men who went out tippin on your wife and had babies confess your mess and deal with the consequences.

When we watch CNN, ABC,CBS,NBC all the news we see is bad news. President Obama is not the cause nor the solution to Americas problems neither are Sarah Palin or Romney or Rick Perry or Ron Paul the solution to America’s problems. America has an enormous SIN PROBLEM and it starts with the lack of Godly men in our homes. God never intended for our families to be what so many are today, yet in the midst of all the confusion and dysfunction in our homes there is hope. If you’re half a Christian you know the answer (2Ch 7:14) if My people, who are called by My name, shall humble themselves and pray, and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from Heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. You men out there stop your wicked ways man-up and marry you baby’s momma when at all possible remember what I said “IF YOU DROP THE SEED DO THE DEED AND MARRY YOUR BABY’S MOMMA”.  You guys also need to stop running out on your marriages in most cases if we as men make the adjustments that we need to make our marriages can make it. Your wife really wants to be loved, needed, and appreciated by you. (1Co 16:13) Watch! Stand fast in the faith! Be men! Be strong! BE MEN, be there for your wife be there for your children BE THERE !!!





 

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